I am in counseling. I do have people to talk to. Yuu are right about pushing her, I don't want that. I aam going to ask what her plans and timelines are. I have a different situation here with her working in her shop 5 days a week. I can't start detaching from her with her here that much. One part of my brain says to leave the door open for her. Another part says she made her choice and the only way I can move on is for the papers to be filed.
