In a way this is a wake up call for me as I was getting into a routine and getting a life with the whole NY thing. I was getting comfortable to the point I could have done it long term. This would not have been the best for my boys. I would have missed a lot and regretted it once they got older. I would have missed the moments.....
My boys called her to ask about staying home tonite. She was reluctant but my 7 year old really pressed her for it. He's her favorite so she folded. She then asked to talk to me. She started on me being nice and working with her but I just told her that now that I'm back I will be seeing my boys a lot more. She said that we can go back to our old schedule and I said I don't think that's gonna work for me
She then said if she has to pay more to support the boys that would really put her in a bad spot financially. I told her that I don't have any income so she will need to figure it out.
I had enough talking with her so I said goodbye. She will freak when she finds I filed for spousal support. This will destroy us financially if I don't fund a job in 6 months. Screw it. It's only things. As long as I'm alive, I can get those things back later, if I still want them......
Putting my faith in God
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13
