A little background. This was the culmination of 2 very crazy weeks. Wife saw an online dating site in my computer history and went crazy...saying that "you dont want this relationship anymore" and "you are where I am now". It took her more than a week to acknowledge seeing the website. During that week she went form being ice cold to me to nice. Doing laundry, making coffee for me, talking to me and brining me into some of what she was doing at her school.
Depends on the kind of person you are right now with her.
Do you kiss her ass constantly, act like a wuss with no backbone, generally smile, and eat platefuls of crap just so that she'll stay with you and not leave you?
That kills attraction.
If she went crazy seeing a dating website in your computer history and then said things like:
"you dont want this relationship anymore"
and
"you are where I am now"
Think about what that says. When she got the idea that maybe you were moving on, all of a sudden you became interesting to her again.
Also when she said "you are where I am now", find out if she is been on a dating website, is she seeing other people/dating?
You could ask her but she would probably lie to you and get angry.
