It has been along time since i have posted. I have been following so many on the boards for the last few months. But know I am in need of some advice. Here is my challenge.... W acknowledged all the chnages i have made over the last 8 months. Said I am an amazing dad, sexy and have a great body, I am doing such an awesome job keeping up the house and taking great care of the kids while she is gone for school all week...BUT... she is not attracked to me. She needs to get help with issues she has with X,Y,Z.
She left the room and came back and we hugged for about 5 minutes. That hadnt happened in more than 3 months.
So how do you build attraction? It sounds stupid to ask but...we live in seperate rooms...rarely see eachother, do not sit near eachother, do not touch eachother but on rare occassion, W doesnt even wash her clothes with ours. I have been follwoing coach, greek, sandie, GIMA, gardner, puppy and the likes...any advice is appreciated.
A little background. This was the culmination of 2 very crazy weeks. Wife saw an online dating site in my computer history and went crazy...saying that "you dont want this relationship anymore" and "you are where I am now". It took her more than a week to acknowledge seeing the website. During that week she went form being ice cold to me to nice. Doing laundry, making coffee for me, talking to me and brining me into some of what she was doing at her school. On The day of acknowledgement our very good friends who are going through a S/D as well "blew up" and the cops were called. The acknowledgement came after picking up the kids & W from the other household and bringing them to our house.
