Another dive down the rollercoaster, and this one is hard.
My Father in Law is probably my second best friend after my wife. We've been emailing daily since this happened. My W has said this was okay.
Today he emailed me and said that my W felt like I was using our friendship against her. This confuses me because I never brought up our conversations with her and I never said anything bad about her to him. I talked about the changes I was making and he provided reassurance to hang in there.
Today he said he needs to be more low key and talk with my W when he returns from vacation next weekend.
This on the day that I woke up feeling good, thinking that my W is going to IC and may start to feel better, maybe see things differntly. DAMN IT. I am losing it!
So, now, in addition to my wife; I've lost my other best friend.
