W didn't work in her shop today, I looked and she cancelled all her appointments. I believe she made a trip to Ohio to see OM. I am so tempted to e-mail her and ask her how Ohio was.And tell her to just file the papers rather than committing adultery since we are legally married yet. Tell me why I should or shouldn't do this.
Hi Bobby.
Do you really want her to file? I've read back through this thread and notice this isn't the first time you've asked this. So here's some advice - stop. You're all over the place, searching for the answers you want to hear.
I nor anyone else on this board have to convince you what you should or should not do. Our goal is to get you balanced so these answers are available to you, through you.
What is your support system? Got friends? I noticed the time stamp, why is this stuff filling your brain at midnight?
Look, my X had an A for the last year of our marriage. I know how awful that feels. But I gained nothing when I focused on it. He didn't care if I knew, it didn't stop him. So don't waste your time throwing this up in her face. I'm sure if you search on the internet, you can find support to expose an A but ask yourself, what's your intention??
Decide what you need to get yourself balanced. And if you can't figure it out get into C.
