Yes IRMAC from what I have seen TX is on it. He just started paying through the Att. Gen. office and when he sent them the check on Thursday I had the check from them in my mailbox by Tuesday. They also want to go after him for the two months that he moved away with og and didn't pay me, reported by my L. I think I'm just going to leave that alone though, since for the time being it's okay.
"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier
"One's best success often comes after their greatest disappointments." Henry Ward Beecher
then about 1 minute later he texted, "I am pricing shower doors".
Ok it could mean 1 of 3 things.
1. He is confused
2. He meant to text OW (they bought a house and they are fixing it up.
3. He is purposely doing this to rub it in that they are fixing up a house together
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Confused? Maybe. Then again, he may have done it to see what your reaction/response would be. Sometimes they do things such as this to get us to respond to them. Attention, good or bad, is what they crave.
Try to ignore his tx....he needs to grow up.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
I agree with you Snod, I think he wants some kind of reaction from me. I did ignore it. It is the best thing.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
T this made me think of a situation that happened between me and my H way back when he was first with OW.
He rang me on a Sunday morning to see if S17 was going to rugby practice. Unbeknown to him (as son hadn't told him) S17 had decided to stop playing. I told him this and he hung up. About half an hour later he rang again. This time after I said hello he said 'Morning babe', he has NEVER called me babe! I realised he had called the wrong number but played along with it and said 'what a lovely way to be woken up'. He then realised his mistake, apologised profusely and hung up. I laughed for hours.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
ACJ, That was funny. These guys are so messed up. I can't imagine what goes on in their minds. It is so very sad....that at times you have to find the humor.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
There was another time when unfortunately my S17 got arrested. Both myself and XH went to the police station whilst he was interviewed. S17 had to stay in police station a while longer while they waited for the parents of the lad he was with when arrested to arrive so they could interview him. They told us to go home. XH opened the door for me and gently put his hand on the small of my back to guide the way for me. He instantly removed his hand and apologised. I told him not to apologise as I wasn't offended. Funny how old habits die very very hard.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
They live in two different worlds i think. I also think they want both those two worlds. Unfortunatley I won't share a man.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
