Mandy, This would be bottom for us. However, hitting bottom for him will be when his wife walks away, his friends are no longer there and he comes to realize that he has nothing left at all. Some hit bottom with what has transpired w/this man and come to realize that they have to do something about their situation. But, in this case, he appears to stil be floating and I can only assume it's the wife that is holding him up at this time.
Step back, watch from afar and things will change when you least expect them.
I do hope that you and your son are doing well.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
