I dont secretly call my H "teddy boy" for nothing, he was always throwing his teddies out of his pram!, at the beginning when he was obviously asserting his new found power, it was like dealing with my own son aged 14! Trouble when youve got lads that age or that have gone past that age is so hard not to laugh at H when you see the similarities, although it does take a bit of the hurt off the situation if you can see that they are struggling with stuff just like they did as boys!
As for surfing places to go, one boundary I have kept is I dont mind moving around where I live but Im not moving anywhere else, its my good friends here that have supported me whilst he has been doing his best Teddy impression and now Im not giving them up for him. I used to say I'd follow him anywhere as long as they had a good shower, I have my own horse so Im constantly in the shower a good one is a MUST!
Take care of yourself first then you can give out the spare you later! ((RW))
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!