Thanks Gardener, actually it was almost quite funny that it was hard not to giggle, a bit like when youve told the kids off but you see the funny side of it too!
RW I have boundaries to be very important, my H is really a sweet kind man so it would be very easy to not enforce boundaries because hes not really threatening in anyway! But I have enforced them for me, I was certainly in the needy category when this all started and now although still with knees knocking occasionally NOT in the needy category!
Thanks for dropping in guys it was getting to feel a bit "billy no mates" around here, although I do find it good to journal stuff!
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!