Kevin - I like the sound of your latest tone. The realization that you are human and cant be expected to have unconditional love. Dont feel bad that you have reached a limit.
Originally Posted By: K4D
I did talk to my priest yesterday. He is not for it. He thinks I need to keep praying and being patient. He says that once I am a confirmed catholic that my prayers will have more influence as a H and a father. Maybe that is true, maybe it isn't. I don't know. It kind of frusturated me as I am trying to submit to the authority of the church.
The only thing I think the priest is lacking experience of is marriage itself. Kevin, the priest has not walked in your shoes or anyone elses that has gone through the heartache of having a spouse walk away. I can understand that you are really torn right now, and I think as more time goes on for you to think about this, you will feel better about your decision.
I remember having friends and family thinking I was a fool for wanting her back. But, I needed to know for myself that I tried to do all I felt I could and should do to help save my family.
I dont know how long divorces take in Texas, but I would imagine it is several months. Keep in mind that anything can happen during that time.
