Mishka, thank you. The hard part is ahead, but I can handle it (as coach would say).

I will come of the high by tomorrow, so I suspect it will be harder day. Have Church planned in the morning , maybe a trip to the aquarium afterwards.

In a strange way, I wouldstill like to see this have a good ending. Dont knwo if that is all possible. I dont know if she is now ashamed of what she has done. I guess some of this will be how the OM deals with it. He told me she was a liar and lied to him for the last two months. Way to be thrown under the bus. Unfortunately, I dont think she heard that as she was to busy screaming at me.

Well 18 calls later (none answered) and two voicemails.

All my doors are locked including the garage door, but she could stil;l enter. She has keys.

Real question is whether to confront OM's seperated wife.

The Alimony and Custody issues are goingto be hard for her. What a shame.....


ME 41, Her 41
M 18.5 years
T 19.5 years
s - 12, 10
Bomb 7/12/09
Inhouse Seperation 7/13/09 - 10/1/09
She moved out 10/1/09 - present