Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[mishka422]

Shell,

I think you handled that amazingly well. I had to play private eye with my xh too to expose his A. I took pics and gave them to my L. She filed them as evidence in case of court proceedings. As I'm sure you know, in GA adultery is still considered while awarding custody and alimony. Not in CS though as that is completely by formula.

You can't legally change the locks unless she has signed away rights to all property or you have a legal document in place stating that the house is yours alone. You can renig on the whole stupid 'nest' concept though. She wants the D, she faces the consequences of her selfish stupidity. She stays in the apt. and gets no support from you. Period.

CAJONES! CAJONES! CAJONES!

It's going to take a very large pair to stick to this, but I think you are just the man to do it.