In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

So, my H talked to my sister today and told her everything we talked about today. I can't believe he came clean to her.

What do I do?

(((PiGA)))

So sorry that this is happening, especially the way it is happening. Your sister??? That is low. Not sure how one is to recover from this. Here is your opportunity for setting a boundary.

I think your H told your sister to see what her response would be; an easy way to admit his feelings to her. How do you know he told her? Did he tell you or did she tell you?

BIM

He told her everything he told me. So, I know what he said. She told me and I confirmed it with him. She said she would not do that to me.

He is dead set on the divorce. He wants me to let him be free of me. He is fine with me dating, he is fine with me moving on, he is fine with me distancing myself from him. He has set his mind and I cannot change it...no matter what DR or DB efforts I put into it. Apparently everyone around me saw the 'passion' was gone except me. He has already stopped seeing me or talking to me except when necessary.

I feel like I should give him what he wants and let him go. Sign the papers and let him go. He doesn't want me and he has no desire to try to make this work. He is 'blank' when he sees me. There is no emotion there anymore.

I am crying. I am angry. I am tired. I am so hopeless. I am about to be divorced. I feel like I should give up.