So... it's come to this.

[NNP1965]

oh and while I am rambling... I watched a movie today called WHY DID I GET MARRIED. Good movie

[BeginningAgain]

Well sorry you are dealing with this anniversary instead of celebrating a happy one. Here's hoping that this time next year you (and the rest of us!) are in a much better place!

S4H

[NNP1965]

thank you s4h, I'll drink to that!

[Matilda2]

checking in. I think about you often even though I am not here much!!

[NNP1965]

thanks Mat I think about you often too

[NNP1965]

Today I am headed to my last Divorce Care class. I am sorry to see it end, but I am very thankful for the people I have met there and the things I have learned.

[Matilda2]

What would you say is the most important thing you have learned?

[WCW]

Like what Mat said, what's 1 and 2 and 3 on your list of things learned?

Have you made Thanksgiving plans yet?

[NNP1965]

1. Things were never what I imagined they were and wanted them to be.
2. I have to take custody of myself
3. I am strong enough to see this through

Yes going to the same friends we always do. ...and you? Going to your Moms?

[WCW]

Those are pretty strong learnings!
Can you explain any more? What steps occur to take custody of yourself?

We've been hanging out too long when you know my plans for the Holidays! LOL Yes, that's what I/we are doing. Breaking tradition a little bit though and we are doing a turkey brunch so we can watch the football game instead of being in the kitchen the whole time. I don't have to take potatoes this time!

Does your we include H too?