I agree. Our son will always be our first priority. We've always agreed with that.
I will not be making any type if communication with her unless it's about our son or the house.
I had previously booked a holiday to Fiji for the 3 of us in Jan. I asked whether I could still take our son, but she hasn't given me an answer. She is more than welcome to join us as our son would love to have both of his parents there. I would also like to work on rebuilding a friendship with W. If she won't let me take him, I'll need to cancel soon or we will loose money. I don't plan on trying or talking about anything else for a while. I need to spent this time on making myself a better person.