Now that you put the possibility of dating out there, never mention it again. Trust me, it's on his mind now, whether you think it had an effect or not. In fact, avoid all discussion about you dating or your love life in general. If he brings it up, quickly change the subject.
No lying, no games, just make it none of his business what you are doing. He will wonder. It's human nature.
~Mark
Me: 38 W: 34 Together: 9yrs 1st M: may '03 1st D: april '08 1st bomb: june '08 remarried: oct '08 2nd bomb: aug '09 --(W asked for D one week into 3 mo. trial separation which was meant to save our M)
