I'm new wondering if this works...

[Day by Day]

Checking in again on you Hope. You got some great advice on detaching. I agree that you must detach. I feel like I finally have. It's easier in my sitch since H is out of the house and I don't see him nearly as much as you see yours.

I see my H with different eyes now and the ugly behavior he has shown to me is not what I deserve. I imagine if I were to start dating him now as if he were a stranger, would I be interested? NO. My attitude towards him changed. So, would you be attracted to someone treating you the way your H is?

Thanks for checking in on my thread. I hadn't updated it in a while since nothing was happening. But this week H and I finally made it to counseling. I am still processing it and will update.

On Gardener's thread there was a post on Let It Go from Serenity. So good.