Originally Posted By: HelpMe!
I KNOW I will be okay either way; but honestly, I don't WANT it to be via divorce.
Of course you don't. None of us do or else we wouldn't be here of all places.

Originally Posted By: HelpMe!
I think the best advice I have gotten here is to generall believe nothing that the other person SAYS and only half of what they DO.

Oh, yeah. I agree. Helped me quite often to remember that during WTF? moments.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac