Welcome back SpyBunny...I missed you.

I did ask her, in the MC session...point blank. I asked her when we argued (that's when I got the "I've been in limbo for 4 years, do you think I care that you have been for 2 months?" comment).

She gives weak answers.

You are right. I do GAL though...but the week with the kids, that is tough. We're watching movies tonight and we went to the library today as well as the mall. Wed. I leave and I won't be back here until after Thanksgiving...that is tough...but I will be okay.

But it doesn't change the fact that if this is THE ONLY OPTION, that she just hasn't filed yet. If there is NO CHANCE, then why not get it over with. I offered to pay for it. I offered to do it jointly. Still nothing.


M: 33
W: 31
D: 11, 6; S:2
M: 11y T:15y (H.S. Sweethearts)
Seperated: 8/30/09
Met with Divorce Mediator 10/5/09
Divorce papers filed 11/13/09