I don't hold in my feelings. I've taked to SS22 many times, but he takes everything personally. The first time I asked for his help he's shouted he didn't do anything. Assuring him it's in the best interest for me and her to have him step aside puts him on the defensive. I've asked him if I ever hit his mom or has he seen me treating her badly. He said no, then I asked him to let us deal with our own problem. His only answer was she's my mom.