If you've been able to read through my long rambling posts, you notice that a recurring theme is "Why won't she file?" I can't figure this out.
The only way you can know for sure is to ask her. Anything else is mind-reading, a waste of energy and brings nothing but frustration. You can't control her or what she does- you can only control you. So it doesn't matter why she hasn't filed, you can't do anything about it. You CAN control how you react to her lack of action and the current situation- and wondering "why?" shouldn't be it. GAL'ing, on the other hand, is a much more productive use of time. Get going!!
