Thank you. I am glad you feel this way, I am trying to feel that way too. I KNOW I will be okay either way; but honestly, I don't WANT it to be via divorce.
I go out with friends and I know that I can meet someone new...some day; but I really love my W and want to make this work.
I agree she is conflicted; but like I said, I can't imagine anyone going through this isn't conflicted at one point or another. It's a major life changing decision and I would feel a little bit better if I knew she was being level headed in her decision making; but she is staying angry and depressed.
I think the best advice I have gotten here is to generall believe nothing that the other person SAYS and only half of what they DO.
