I have a question for all of you. If you've been able to read through my long rambling posts, you notice that a recurring theme is "Why won't she file?" I can't figure this out.
My guess (and it is just a guess): Conflicted.
Originally Posted By: HelpMe!
AM I WRONG TO BE HOPEFUL? How do you detatch and remain hopeful? They seem to work against eachother.
Personally I had gotten to a place where I remained hopeful, but was fully acceptable about being fine with either outcome.
Took a while to get there. And it wasn't an "oh, boy! Oh, boy! I'm hopeful! This is looking great! I'm hopeful!"
Just hoped it may turn around but truly fine either way.
It didn't turn around. Isn't going to. I don't regret my hope. I'm good with the outcome. I will be good (and even better) again. So will life.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
