"If I can detach enough, maybe she'll (he'll) come back"

At a miminum this is faulty logic and a misuse of the word "detachment"

Is it an oxymoron? Maybe some of you english major types can help me there.

Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
Walking away from a bad situation.

My Sitch

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