So I told him that I did want him here and that it was nice being with him, BUT if he was just using me for cake/comfort then I had to move on, it has taken a lot for me to stand on my feet and I cant go backwards. He validated my efforts to stand on my own two feet and said I'd done really well. He told me he wasnt cake/comfort eating and that he thought things were going well and that he hoped that we could see what each other wanted to do and maybe get back together, all of this in a no commitment kinda speech. So I told him that was good and he decided he'd go back this morning, this morning came and he asked me what I'd like to do, I had planned some serious me time but felt like I should in the interest of reconcilation, not sure if that was right or not, so we went out shopping, went to a hobby shop for him and I showed much greater interest and patience than I had before in his hobby, came back and he was due to go home, guess what he obviously didnt want to, so I kissed him goodbye and hopped out of his car and dived indoors outta the rain.
Oh, you're getting good. Real good!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
