And. I believe, when you find her, don't even pursue her too hard. They're so used to that. Act somewhat interested but a bit indifferent. That often makes them wonder WTF and do a bit of pursuing themselves just to find out what makes you tick and why you aren't in full-blown pursuit like all the other men who approach her.
Gardener, summoning up 20-year old techniques here that he hasn't used - or thought about - in eons. But I remember 'em working!.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
