P17. I am going to think about my answer tonight. And get back to you in the morning. I do agree 100% with you on the path of taking this over and controlling your life and protecting yourself and your daughter. You need to read up on the IM. Its a very difficult role for someone to take on. As they need to completely understand their role. So choose very wisely. They also need to know to protect you and your daughter no matter what.