The goal is to? Set the story straight? Show your not a monster? Attack the WAS?
My goal is not to attack her as that is vindictive. I want to simply to give people the opportunity to find out the truth. The rumours and stories are getting beyond a joke.
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List out the current exposure and time lines and reactions from those people and WAS.
There has been no real exposure so far from me. W has done all the exposure. Reactions Im not sure of as nobody is talking to me about it. Heard nothing from her family at all, although I know her parents support her.
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List out who you are now planning to expose to and how your going to do this.
Immediate family, close friends and work colleagues via Facebook or email. I dont know his family or friendscso the only way to expose for him is all his Facebook friends. Im not sure about that one though.
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Are you going to send a no contact letter?
Yes.
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How will you communicate about Daughter?
Contact for D will also stop. D is getting false hope and getting angry and afraid of my W leaving her. D is not Ws D.
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Do you have an IM setup if you go completely dark?
No. Do I need one? I could ask a friend.
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Do you understand excatly what your doing here?
I believe so. I am cutting contact so that my D and I can grieve for the loss we both feel, heal and move on with our lives. We dont have any other options available to us.
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Do you have the strenght to follow thru with this path?
I believe so. I wont know for sure until I do it. However, as I said, there are no other options available.
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Do you have outlets set up to contact when you waiver?
I have an IC and friends. Is this what you mean?
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Do you have your short loving answers for when people ask you about your wife?
No. Didnt think of that. Nobody has asked me anything about her so far. What were you thinking?
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Do you understand that NC means you do not find out info on your wife in any fashion from any means?
Short of one slipup a few days ago I have not been listening to anything. In fact I have told friends to keep anything they find out to themselves.
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Answer these questions please.
As you have a few items planned here.
Lets see your plan.
I hope this answers them. I am happy for criticism or 2x4's. Thats why I post and ask for advice.
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
