Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[Gardener]

shellshocked,

Of course it was not a suprise, but still, the act of seeing it in person can be challenging to digest.

Oh. my God, I can imagine so!

She has called a total of 17 times so far this afternoon and left two vmails. I answered none and at one point just plain turned the phone off. I cant beleive that speaking to the WAS at this point would benefit anyone.

Good. Keep that up.

Of course I told her not to her come back to the house, but that will not be enforceable from a legal standpoint right now. With both the boys in the house, under my extremely careful and watchful eye, I dont want to box her belongings up.

I understand. Can you at least start when kidlets are asleep?

I have, however, begun removing all pictures of her in the house.

Good start. Good compromise.

Stay dark. Take MIl & FIL up on their offer to watch kids. You have photos. Show them to OM's STBX (if that's even true) Show them to MIL & FIL. Expose, expose, expose!