Hoping WAW will someday see through the fog....

[Gnosis]

Shell I've never commented on your thread before. Because its Sat. and slow here on the weekends I decided to post.

With the punch in the gut you've just received I think you handled the situation excellently. Disconnecting all lines of communication and refusing to talk to her was a very wise decision. Remember to hold off for 48 hours before making a decision. Anger causes us to make mistakes.

As for exposing the affair to the OM's W. I'm very pro-affair exposure as long as its not being done for petty revenge. His wife deserves to know the real reasons why her marriage is being ruined. 99% of the time she is being lied to and doesn't know the truth. Exposure enables her to prepare herself accordingly because no one will ever tell her the truth until its too late for her. Wait 48 hours and get some more feedback on this too.

Best method depends on you. Personally I would do it face to face (but that's just me, and I have the gonads to do it). When you do, give her a copy of the photos you took = to prove it.

Good for you for standing up to her and telling her not to return to the house. She has moved out correct? What are the implications of changing the locks to the house to prevent her from entering. A good excuse could be that you lost the keys...

Think carefully about this, while you are pondering read up on how RobX handled the exact same situation you are in. If it scares you, bear in mind that he is one of more successful DB'ers on the board, and last I read, his wife is coming around.

Stay strong bro.