In shock...

[praying_in_GA]

Well, I also found out the breaking point of his decision to leave was the second time the condom broke this Oct. He never really wanted kids but we agreed to have our daughter. Our son was a complete surprise to us both. He does not want more kids. Period. The scares made him feel more trapped and cornered into the marriage.

He still likes me he just doesn't feel the love he once did. He said it didn't feel like we were married. It was just two people living together taking care of the kids. He said he thinks I should date a bit to see if I really do love him or if I am just comfortable and scared of change.

I told him I want to continue the separation. I have a lot to think about.