The goal is to? Set the story straight? Show your not a monster? Attack the WAS?
List out the current exposure and time lines and reactions from those people and WAS.
List out who you are now planning to expose to and how your going to do this.
Are you going to send a no contact letter? How will you communicate about Daughter? Do you have an IM setup if you go completely dark? Do you understand excatly what your doing here? Do you have the strenght to follow thru with this path? Do you have outlets set up to contact when you waiver? Do you have your short loving answers for when people ask you about your wife? Do you understand that NC means you do not find out info on your wife in any fashion from any means?