Britt I haven't posted to you before. I read your sitch yesterday. Here are your goals for today at the party:

1) I'm going to go there and be happy. I refuse to give anyone the satisfaction of seeing me down.
2) I'm going to enjoy myself and see people I haven't seen in a while.
3) I don't care about H, what he does and how he's going to act. IT'S NOT MY PROBLEM, it's his.
4) I will not enter into nor entertain any conversation about my relationship or marriage with anyone. When the subject comes up I'm going to say, "I'm doing fine. Oh, that's such a boring subject! What have you been up to? How is _______"

Keep it simple. Have fun, if you can't then fake it until you make it.


M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married
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