Things between WAW and I have been very calm the last few days. If I didn't know better, even I would think everything is great.
WAW continues to show signs that her move out is nothing more than that in her mind. Right now in addition to her usual physical issues, she has a very bad flu. Last night she asked me to rub her back and wanted to lie with her head in my lap. I allowed that just long enough for her to enjoy it and then left the room to watch hockey elsewhere in house.
WAW said "after I move out, will you still look after me when I am sick?" I said "no, we will be separated - you can't have the best of both worlds". Later, I relented a bit when she asked again.
I think she is starting to question the validity of moving out, but will be too proud to change her mind since she is this far. This could be a big waste of money in order for she and I to both "feel whole" as she said last night.
I will keep being the nice guy and giving her something to really miss even into December as she "moves out slowly". But, i think she is in for a big surprise in January when I politely request real separation for a while.
I am starting to think my WAW is suffering somewhat from MLC.
This whole thing is becoming less sad for me and almost entertaining.
