Tks Awest & Gucci! I def had a tough week with the whole DB process. I did get wrapped up into thinking X was pursuing by spending time with us on the holiday, going to lunch with D & I and that she was being a little nicer. I guess I read too much into it.
I can see she is not pursuing now for sure. I do think she is with OM and I don't care to accomodate that. I am going to focus greater efforts on trying to date others and drop all efforts with X. I guess I just really wanted it to work (like everbody else on here) and was trying to pick up the pieces/put the puzzle back together.
Emotions are tough to put in check. Of course, I still care about my X and is why I would get frazzled thinking about her being with OM. Also, how all this negative impacts everyone involved.
Am I still in this after two years bc this is how I have handled it? Is it also how the X has contained her emotions and feelings & has not dealt with any of it?
I am def trying to figure it all out and am on these forums bc I want it to work out with X and for our D. Is there any hope? I feel like if I am going in any other direction it is at the expense of D.
Gucci, If you don't mind me asking, how long have you been in the DB process and what results have you had?
