I don't think you are really listening. Your ex DOESN'T want you. How much more clear can she make it? Any man who pursues a woman that clearly doesn't want him IS selfish. Chasing a woman and pursuing a woman when she doesn't want you is nothing more than a waste of YOUR time. Complete waste.
You want what you can't have. You want the unattainable. Do you realize that men who are successful with women actually allow the woman to do some pursuing? Women will tell you again and again that they like to be pursued, but have you ever noticed that those are usually the ones that are actually pursuing a man that isn't pursuing them?
Case in point...
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I understand the feeling because as a woman, I want to be the one pursued and not the other way around. All women want to feel like a princess being swept off their feet by a prince. What I would do is give it some time and call just to check in. My H was sick all last weekend, and I have decided to LRT, but if you read my latest post, I need to show him I care because that is why he has the OW becuase he thinks I don't care. So I just text him to see if he was ok. I did this more when he was really sick, and less once I knew he had seen a doctor and was going to be ok. Then I backed off and just asked him when he called me.
Now. Didn't she tell you in the first part of her comments how much women love to be pursued. And yet... She IS pursuing the man.(who doesn't seem to want her and surely is NOT pursuing her) Doesn't that tell you anything? She wants to be pursued but the reality is that it is actually quite the opposite. Women almost always run the other way when a man pursues as you are. They also want the unattainable, the hard to get, the one that is just out of reach...
Follow reality. Stop ALL pursuit of this woman. Turn and head the other direction. If she wakes up, fine. IF not fine. Find a woman that WANTS to be with you and quit trying to win a woman that is treating you like this one is. She can't respect a man who can't take a hint. She senses your desperation. Desperate men are a huge turnoff. To stop her from feeling that way just kick her to the curb and get on with your life..
THAT is your answer. You are wasting your time with any other method. As your two years indicates.
