Stu, I know how you feel, one minute you are up, planning to detach, gonna be strong, the next it feels like a dagger is in you heart.
Just know you are not alone, I know it does not take away the pain, but I am going through the exact same emotions. I felt the exact same this morning.
M: 30 W: 32 Married: 9 years s: 2.8 Bomb dropped: 7-10-09 same house, bed, no physical contact My sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1871805&page=1