I don't really recall doing anything in particular except walking away with no intentions of getting back together. He did all the pursuing. What I did do was hang out with a mutual male friend A LOT. And this friend had a major crush on me since before I met my H...his intentions were more than just friends but nothing happened between us. H thought otherwise. Around this time, H also hit on one of my GF through emails. She ended up forwarding most of it to me and still have a hard copy of it. He wrote to her that he started to develop feeling towards her and that he fell out of love with me long time ago. In a separate letter to me when he wanted to get back together, he stated he wrote to her out of spite because I was seeing a lot of our mutual friend. Never really bought it. Overall, I think he was really motivated by the thought of other men pursuing me.
