Originally Posted By: stu321
W just told me she is happier without me.

I want her to be happy, so I don't think I have a choice now but to give her what she wants.
You should want you need to be happy too, first. What do you need/want to make you happy (only you can do that).

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac