BIM, thanks for responding. As for the lie detector test accuracy, I agree with you. I really wish that the stupid machine had done it's job. If you'll pardon me for saying so, I think your H is a mule.
I don't have a thread of my own up yet... I've been distracted by reading other peoples threads and learning from them so far. Almost any question I had was answered so I've not been motivated to type out my situation.
Keep working on your boundaries and stand up for yourself. You're a good person and I hope the scales fall out of your H's eyes soon.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT