I want to thank all of you for supporting me. I hurt tonite, but, for reasons much different than from when I first got here. This evening was probably was of the 'best' nights I've had with respects to GAL and DB'ing, yet, now, seems the most darkest of all. In the beginning, I had hope. I even told my W only days after the bomb and finding this place that I would make her fall in love with me again. Now, I'm not so sure that even I can do that. I said earlier, and I repeat, I am releasing myself from all of this....that, it truly IS 'all about my W' right now.
Just a though...how important...is our intuition and insight as we 'counsel' people here?
FIB
Yo Frank, Through all of the posts way back when the consistent was that we have to do this for ourselves, we have to work on us for us and not for them.
A lot of those old posters are such better people today, not successful Divorce busters, I think not. Successful in that they were able to shed light on many many lives and become the people they were meant to be.
You are one of them. You have battled pretty hard and for a long time it hasn't been about anything but you. That's success dude. The shitt your going through now, imagine trying to handle this back in 2006, we were not strong enough back then to survive something like this, but now....you are.
So that saying that is tossed around here like beads at mardi gras about God not putting anything before you that you cannot handle, makes sense now doesn't it.
How about STOIC, do you remember how overwhelming it was at times for him? Do you remember the fears and concerns? Did you get a look at that amazing trip he just took to Hawaii with his girlfriend? Did you know he has come to Memphis in May every year so far? What an amazing example of how if the focus is truly on ourselves our lives will be amazing.
My point in all this, the past is the past and second guessing anything that your reading in your archives helps nothing. Focusing in on making sure that FIB is taking care of FIB still, that is what matters my friend.
