Thanks Pearl.

H has started posting to his sister and niece on FB. I can see them because I'm friends with the two of them as well as his mom.

H was on FB years ago before it was so popular, then he stopped for awhile - I guess too busy with OW.

I signed up last summer and have enjoyed staying in touch with SIL/MIL. We keep it casual and never talk about you know what.

It gives me the creeps seeing his posts and his profile pic. I was doing so well at detaching, preparing for the D, acting as if. Now I have to look at his stupid remarks? Surely he knows I can see them?


Me 56
H 47
Married 21 years
No children
Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself".
Ow Bomb 8/07
H filed 6/08
D final 2/05/10