Why put an end to the physical stuff you are getting some for now and she is getting her d and playing the field? Maybe after she finds a boyfriend you can still get some one the side.
She said that she is using you do you? Is she really treating like a man? Are you acting like a man for her to be using you?
I confess to enjoying the physical stuff. It's been happening with far more frequency than pre-bomb. She claims she wants to continue this for the next 5 years...that I will be welcome to visit her in her new house. We haven't fought (in spite of involvement of lawyers) since it began.