avermont. I believe I fall into the bust the affair crowd. So alot of my advice will be from within that area.

Some are not. Finances and protection fall into both accounts.

In the end. Its all about you. As you are all you have, no matter what happens in your stich and life.

Also remember the goal here is to bust the divorce. How you attempt to get there is up to you. But it will be a choice. As it is a choice to go through with the divorce. But if you do down the road. It will be a choice you made.