Pearl, I don't know what the options are of actively busting up the affair. I didn't know that I had a choice of paths. I thought with DB I "act as if" "keep bridge open between us" "be an attractive person." All of which I am trying. What is the path of breaking up the affair?
Me: 44 Him: 42 Together: 23 years; never married Bomb: August 1, 2009 Affair since May 2009 Walk away; no conversation; no process
