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Greek #1873677 11/13/09 08:51 PM
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Originally Posted By: Gardener
They left. I had a good ten-minute cry amidst the new(er) emptiness of the house (ah, the piano, where every Thanksgiving and Christmas for 17 years, my nephew would play, my son would sing - great voice, he's starring in a regional musical this month - and we would all listen to them).



I'll betcha a drum set would fit PERFECTLY where that piano was! And do you have a dog? Might be time to get one, Gardener! These are two good pages out of Coach's survival book smile

Cheers~~~ To your NEW life!
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Don't forget the velvet Elvis, and the "Dogs Playing Cards" wall-hanging!! laugh

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And the pool table.


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Keep your chin up and start planning all the things you can choose to put in her place, oopss sorry I meant in their place lol! Glad you liked the "chap" Im typically british Im afraid!


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Greek,
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I'll betcha a drum set would fit PERFECTLY where that piano was! And do you have a dog? Might be time to get one, Gardener! These are two good pages out of Coach's survival book :)Cheers~~~ To your NEW life!Greek
Thanks. I remember both the dog and the drums from Coach's "Film Study-What Worked" (Hmmm. I used to play the drums....)

Best Cat comment I've heard in a while: "I've known several Zen Masters in my life. All of them cats." Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now

Best Dog cartoon (The New Yorker, probably): Man sitting in his easy chair, glancing at his watch: "Gee, I wonder what time it is?"
Dog sitting next to him looking up at him, tongue out, tail wagging (thought balloon):, "Now. Now. Now. Now. Now. Now." laugh

Those two just sum up the different/same essences of dogs and cats!


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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Also, definition of both a dog and a good friend:, "Someone who is happy to see you and has no plans for your immediate improvement."

Anyway, I'm not going to Man-Cave it too much. It is on the market. And I'm working my fanny off today as there are two showings tomorrow morning.

I did Zen up the bedroom, though. Took much off the walls, removed furniture, removed w-w carpeting & had hardwood floors refinished. Many candles. Easy chair, meditating pillow, New earth-tone color paints.
My Sacred, Zen Fortress of Solitude (Solace-tude?).

The solitude part sucks at times, though as we all know.


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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So begin daydreaming about what your new man-cave will be like. Once this place sells, where would you like to live? Get picky. You have the luxury now of living in a place that is suited to You...and your new dog.

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Originally Posted By: Gardener


I did Zen up the bedroom, though. Took much off the walls, removed furniture, removed w-w carpeting & had hardwood floors refinished. Many candles. Easy chair, meditating pillow, New earth-tone color paints.
My Sacred, Zen Fortress of Solitude (Solace-tude?).


Sounds awesome! Don't forget the Nugent posters tho! cool

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Sounds awesome! Don't forget the Nugent posters tho! cool

No. Mountain and Leslie West posters (and I dating myself, here?


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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Originally Posted By: Gardener
The solitude part sucks at times, though as we all know.


Saw this quote the other day:

"The difference between loneliness and solitude is how you feel about the person you are with" wink

I am finding that I am enjoying being alone sometimes - solitude.


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Originally Posted By: Gardener
The solitude part sucks at times, though as we all know.


Saw this quote the other day:

"The difference between loneliness and solitude is how you feel about the person you are with" wink

I am finding that I am enjoying being alone sometimes - solitude.
I'm with you there, thinker. I've said often that I've gotten used to living without STBXW. Later on I told a couple of friends that I kinda prefer it now, actually. When my S, DIL & GS moved out last month, I felt, "Damn! It's good to be alone right now."


Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac


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