First. Wayward will say anything and hold on to any negative thing they can think of. They think like snakes and ladders. Only problem is that its a 100 squares and they remember only the snake squares right now. I know its hard not to feel pity for their narowmindness. But they truely believe what they are saying.
Good thing you are in reality. So you can understand these concepts to time and incontext. Next time he brings it up. look at him like he is an alien, carry on the conversation like he never said it.
Speaking of joint bank account stuff.
You have locked down your finaces. Right. All joint stuff needs to be locked down now. Deposit your pay to another account and transfer in your half to pay the bills if you have some joint agreement. Cancel any credit cards that are joint. Remove him from car insurance as well. He is a big boy. He can get all that stuff himself. Since he is starting a new life. He can start to take on some of those responsibilities.
You should see some flack here. Which is good. Flack means your not playing according to script. Anger means you made a point. You are a strong independent woman right? Well carry that out for yourself. You will be a finacially protected strong independent woman.
Don't give him the DVD. Don't give him anything but a detached loving woman.
