LOl a wine bottle upside on his head would be an extreme waste of good wine :) Drinking it alone will be a waste too.. how about saving it for a dinner with him?
Yes, I think weeding out the bad really sounds perfect, and yes it is what we're doing here.
By the way.. before hitting him with that bottle think about this..... ( I"m ashamed of this story... but I guess I better blurt it out... ) There were quite a few back and forths in our working things out 5 years ago. ONe day she will be out of the picture and we had a go at fixing our marriage, next week she was back in the picture and the fixing was a no go! I was so upset. I"m a very controlled person in most situations, but i was really loosing control there. I remember just yelling something at him and retreat to the kitchen. I decided the best thing to do before really exploding was to get the dishes out of the dishwasher and try to calm down. He followed me to the kitchen still giving me excuses and justification on how there was no way we couldn't work out the marriage. My dishwasher is a portable one. I have to roll it up to the sink when I use it and back to its place when I'm done. I"m opening and closing the door, taking the dishes out, making noise just trying to drown his voice, and he is nowere to quit. I finish, unplug the whole thing and he's still talking. I try to push the darn thing back to place but it's stuck. And he keeps giving me ridiculous excuses and I"m ready to explode! Pull the dishwasher, push the dishwasher, hear him talking, dishwasher doesn't move, hear him talking... EXPLOSION TIME!!!!!!!! I give it a final push out of anger and the silly things flyes towards him. 3 cracked ribs! First time I explode and that happens!!!!! ANd I didn't even mean to do it, I just wanted that dishwasher out !
SO know I"m much better at controling myself in all occasions LOL Really really ashamed at the outcome there, but i swear it wasn't done on purpose! Hugsies nightshade
"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "
:) Drinking it alone will be a waste too.. how about saving it for a dinner with him?
) There were quite a few back and forths in our working things out 5 years ago. ONe day she will be out of the picture and we had a go at fixing our marriage, next week she was back in the picture and the fixing was a no go! I was so upset. I"m a very controlled person in most situations, but i was really loosing control there. I remember just yelling something at him and retreat to the kitchen. I decided the best thing to do before really exploding was to get the dishes out of the dishwasher and try to calm down. He followed me to the kitchen still giving me excuses and justification on how there was no way we couldn't work out the marriage. My dishwasher is a portable one. I have to roll it up to the sink when I use it and back to its place when I'm done. I"m opening and closing the door, taking the dishes out, making noise just trying to drown his voice, and he is nowere to quit. I finish, unplug the whole thing and he's still talking. I try to push the darn thing back to place but it's stuck. And he keeps giving me ridiculous excuses and I"m ready to explode! Pull the dishwasher, push the dishwasher, hear him talking, dishwasher doesn't move, hear him talking... EXPLOSION TIME!!!!!!!! I give it a final push out of anger and the silly things flyes towards him. 3 cracked ribs! First time I explode and that happens!!!!! ANd I didn't even mean to do it, I just wanted that dishwasher out !