I've done a pretty good job of avoiding any R discussions. Not too hard when we barely see/talk to each other anymore since I stopped initiating the texts/calls. But I did casually ask during conversation the other morning if she was still in contact with OM. She replied "Some...but I'm also talk to _____ and _____ and oh ____ is stuck in ____ with a car broken down. Their transmission broke on the way to pick up their D..." and just pushed it off on that tangent.
That's like the teenager who goes to the 7-Eleven, and says "Oh, I'll have some salted peanuts, a Slim-Jim, oh that Penthouse right there, a medium blue Slurpee, some double-A batteries . . . "
